downwithdebt

I think some people really cringe when they hear the word Frugal.  Frugal is a way of simple living that is a choice.  I think most people confuse frugal living for being a hoarder. They think cool whip containers, washing out baggies, and bread and water.

There is a difference between hording and frugality. 

I need to be careful with this, it reminds me of my mother in laws house.  Cupboards overflowing with cool whip containers, peanut butter jars, washed out used soda bottles and various jars, everything. Countertops that have so much stuff stacked on them there not visible or even usable. A garage so full of stuff you can not park your vehicle in it.

My definition of hoarding is:

• Keeping clothing that no longer fits, are the wrong size, or no one has worn in years. 
• Your dresser drawers don’t shut because there full of items that you have not worn in years.  Matter in fact you can’t even see the top of your dresser.
• Keeping boxes, or various containers, items which are free or easily replaceable.
• Keeping items that you have not used in years, and can’t bear the thought of getting rid of them even though they are not used.
• You can not see or use your counter space
• You could not fit another item in your closet, cupboard or attic if you wanted to.
• Keeping food items that are after there prime and trying to find ways to use them or disguise the fact they are spoiled. (Super yuck I have seen this!) Someone who is frugal never let the stuff spoil!

Some one who is frugal use less, have what they need, and donate or give items they no longer use to others who can use them.  Frugality means living within your means and using what you have.   Not being wasteful.  Having the peace of mind that if there are needs that do come up, you have the resources to meet them.  This comes with applying yourself, saving and reducing ALL debt, which I am in the process of doing. 

It is hard to keep on track when you are surrounded with thoughts of doing without and clutter.  This is how hording works and makes you feel. Hording makes you feel tired and hopeless. 

Frugality opens up a world of wealth, by setting your mind free of clutter and letting yourself know that you have what you need.

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